Leverage the power of neuroscience to create coaching conversations that change the world. Secure your spot for Judith’s upcoming Complimentary Conversational Intelligence Immersion Training happening this November. Secure your spot now.
The key is to use your conversational intelligence (C-IQ)—your capacity to connect—to recognize social and psychological needs and translate this awareness into conversations that meet these needs. Here are five steps you can take now:
Step 1. Acknowledge people’s social and psychological needs. Our needs are sources of energy, motivation and engagement. Create a culture where people can meet the following seven needs:
Step 2: Model self-responsibility for meeting needs. Cultivate a culture of self-responsibility by expressing direct and timely feedback to others when their behavior detracts from your needs being met and by making clear requests regarding actions that they can take to better meet your needs. Also, asking them for feedback on whether your behavior is meeting their needs; if not, ask what needs are not being met and what actions they’d like you to take to better meet these needs.Step 3: Offer and accept support for identifying and meeting your needs. We often need help identifying our needs and support of others to meet them. As a leader, you can foster an environment in which people support each other in identifying and meeting their needs by offering support (asking someone who appears distressed what’s going on that they need help with) and accepting support when it is offered.
Step 4: Celebrate when needs are met. Nothing builds momentum for continuing to meet these needs than celebrating the actions that lead to these needs being met. Celebrate the meeting of a need, and you can expect this need to become increasingly met going forward; fail to celebrate the meeting of a need and you demoralize the person.
Step 5: Hire needs-intelligent employees. Some employees may arrive to work intent on creating a sense of inclusion and belonging, while others may arrive resigned that they’ll never feel included. Identify those needs you want to meet in your culture and then hire people who have a strong connection to these needs and embody a sense of self-responsibility for ensuring that these needs are met.
In Conversationally Intelligent cultures, people celebrate achievement often to meet their social and psychological needs in a healthy ways, resulting in higher morale and productivity.
If you’d like to learn how to use Conversational Intelligence® to improve your client outcomes, sign up today for Judith’s 90 minute complimentary Immersion Training happening Nov.16th and 17th, 2016.
In the Training you will gain more insights into the neurochemistry of conversations, how to expand and improve the quality of your conversations, and the latest practical applications and coaching frameworks to elevate your coaching to the next level.